In the midst of all the pomp and circumstance of Cedarville University’s commencementweekend, a special dream came true for Fernanda (Fernie) Hochstedler, a graduate student who was battling a terminal diagnosis at her home in Sao Paulo, Brazil.Although Hochstedler was unable totravel to campus for her commencement ceremony, her daughter, Naomi Hochstedler, walked across the stage to receive her mother’s academic regalia during the annual hooding ceremony on Friday, May 3,fromthe Cedarville University School of Nursing program. Sixteen days later, on Sunday, May 19, Hochstedler passed away from an advanced form of breast cancer,and her daughter—with her mother's hood--has a lifelong memory of loving her mom well.

WatchCedarville University's Hooding Ceremonywith Naomi Hochstedler being presented with her mother's graduate school hood. In the linked video, Naomi receives her mother's hood from 19:01 to 19:19.

Hochstedler, who earned an undergraduate degree in nursing from Cedarville in 2001,began her nursing careershortly after receiving her bachelor’sdegree.She worked full timeat The Ohio State University Medical Centeruntil the arrival of her secondchild,whenshe decided to stay home and focus onherfamily.

Soon after making this decision, Hochstedler and her husband Delton moved fromLondon, Ohio, to her home countryof Brazilto work with homeless children in 2008.

Delton Hochstedler, a social worker,began working with children in vulnerable communities, focusing on the developing foster care system, a growing movement in Brazil.Ferniestarted using her skills as a nurse to help children with medical needs.

In the midst ofher work,Ferniedecided to pursue the MSN degree online through Cedarville’s School of Nursing. Her researchwas centered on childhood cancer—a decision inspired by the journey of their son, Kaleb, whom they had lost to a rare form of childhood cancer in 2020. Her research focused on conditions for the care of childhood cancer in Brazil.

Hochstedler was excited to continue her studies while living out the mission instilled during her education at Cedarvilleof being the hands and feet of Jesus to the vulnerable and weak.

One year later,Ferniewas diagnosed withan easilytreatable breast cancer.However, her treatment plancouldn’tslow down or remove the cancer, and her condition worsened as the tumor became resistant to each new form of treatment.

“I knew that we had to be honest and up front in our new circumstances concerning my illness, justlike wewere in Kaleb’s journey,”saidFernie one month from her passing.“We neverhidanything from the kids.We wanted them to see how even in the dark valley, Godwillcomethrough and provide in amazing ways. While aware of the seriousness of the situation, we also pointed them to see how the Lord is still good and faithful.”

In the most tragic of circumstances, the family learned to facehard questionswhile relying on God.

During Kaleb’s hospital stays, theHochstedlersministeredto the healthcare professionals taking care of their son.The doctors had never seen a family walk through end-of-lifesituations with the grace and peace they saw from this family.

“Many doctors were bitter toward God due to things they’d seen and experienced, but we have kept in touch with some of them and some are considering God anew,” saidFernie.“In my situation, we are excited to see what God does this time.We’rekeeping our ears,eyesand hearts open.”

Through her journey,Fernielearned the value of gratitude and keeping things joyful.

“By keeping things lighthearted, I don’t mean I ignore the difficulties,” she said. “It doesn’t happen easily all the time, but Ido embrace the challenges, and being able to laugh can make things less intense.”

But gratitude wastrulylife-giving for her, including being thankful for thebig things, like the people supporting her, and for thelittle things, like flowers or sunshine. She was also grateful for the opportunity Cedarville afforded her to receive her graduate degreefrom afar.

“The nursing professors were super helpful and really bent over backwards for me, especially when I wasn’t doing very well,” saidFernie. “They were really understanding and allowed me to work within mycapacity, extending deadlines if needed or offering oral evaluations.I’mso thankful.Icouldn’thave achieved this goal without their grace.”

“Gratitude feels like my window to God,”Fernieshared. “It opens a window in the darkness and keeps you from being engulfed in despair. It makes a true difference in your outlook.”

In late April, Hochstedler began experiencing liver failure, with her tumor getting out of control once again. A new attempt at traditional chemotherapy proved helpful for a moment, allowing her tobalance side effects with time spent among family and friends.

“Ultimately, the only one who can walk with us in our pain and stand with us in our loneliness is Jesus,”Ferniesaid with confidence in her faith.

Fernie lived her life with purpose. In her passing, she leaves a legacy of serving others to those who follow her in the nursing profession.